The journey of adoption is a wonderful journey that allows us to realize a dream of having a child. But there is always a moment during this trip that has nothing to paradise.
''I can not wait to go home!''That thought never left my mind as the ambulance took me to the emergency hospital in Santa Marta. It began Sunday morning when mom woke up with an unpleasant feeling of deja vu ... that digestion, which decided not to do his job. It knows me indigestion since I suffer from various problems for several years. But it's hard when this happens and we're in another country, with two children and no family to help us. After several Gravol and Immodium the problem is not resolved. The next night it's Dad who begins to suffer. In the early morning daddy takes Karen to a ballad to allow mom a little rest. During his absence mom suddenly suffers from horrible stomach cramps that takes her breath away and make him almost lose consciousness. I therefore use the little energy I have left to pick up the phone and request an ambulance. Upon arrival, Laura is going to open the door. We therefore quickly injects a dose of pain medication that has no effect. So his dad between ballad surprised to find two men in the room! It does not feel well either and it began a long series of vomiting. So it injects a second dose of pain medication that has no effect either. The decision is made to take me to hospital.
Dad is very ill, he was therefore obliged to hire a nanny to care for children who fortunately they have nothing! Very difficult for Laura to have someone who cares for her and does not understand his language. She lives so very difficult times and many concerns.
After treatment with antibiotics at the hospital, I felt better and I entered the hotel in the afternoon. Dad is very ill and the nurse from the hotel takes care of him. The hotel manager even comes to visit us, worried that two customers are sick.
The days are very hard, eat little and we are very tired. Mom has a hard back tears for a few days. Dad has an iron will keep the good mood. It is in these moments that the adoption is difficult. It's lonely and it's hard to see light at the end of the tunnel. We must therefore find the courage one day or another and start a countdown. It is said that there are more that what remains to be done.
was not always want to tell what goes wrong during a trip that should give us that pleasure and joy. But unfortunately there is not as beautiful. There are difficult times and many battles to fight. For most of us in this difficult episode, we find a four-family dynamics. Accept that you can not be divided into two and thereby, there is often one of two who has trouble. Must to find the right words to comfort and understanding and that, in patience and love. Do not forget that the biggest challenge and take care of a child who knows and who does not know us. So she cries sometimes without anyone found the reason and that's very frustrating and guilt. Therefore through this period with as much courage to adopt, it is not so simple and it is certainly not a pleasure trip!
There is no photo of course! For these times we will have to forget to remember only the beautiful.
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